NOTES:

And “don’t sin by letting anger control you.” Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a foothold to the devil.

Ephesians 4:26–27 (NLT)

Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of malicious behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.

Ephesians 4:31-32 (NLT)

RULE #1: CHOOSE YOUR FIGHTS CAREFULLY.

RULE #2: REMEMBER THE GOAL IS NOT VICTORY.

RULE #3: ATTACK THE PROBLEM, NOT THE PERSON.

RULE #4: FORGIVE WHEN WRONGED. APOLOGIZE WHEN WRONG.

RULE #5: RUN TOWARDS RECONNECTION.

RULE #6: ASK FOR HELP IF YOU’RE STUCK.

BOTTOM LINE:

Healthy couples don’t fight to WIN; they fight to HEAL.

THE CHALLENGE:

Ask the Blessing Question.